There is that saying "What comes around, goes around" which precisely describes my attitude towards positive and negative thoughts.
I know that it usually is meant to be applying to what you do to others you will get back. If you are a selfless helper you will get rewarded with help in return. Not necessarily from the person you helped, because some people are not exactly grateful if you help them but you will get rewarded by others eventually, when you need it. The point is helping without WANTING something in return, selflessness is the key to make you feel good about yourself, and good about what you did, to help others. If you go out there and only help to get something in return then I don't consider it as being real and positive help. It's a selfish thing to do.
I know that it usually is meant to be applying to what you do to others you will get back. If you are a selfless helper you will get rewarded with help in return. Not necessarily from the person you helped, because some people are not exactly grateful if you help them but you will get rewarded by others eventually, when you need it. The point is helping without WANTING something in return, selflessness is the key to make you feel good about yourself, and good about what you did, to help others. If you go out there and only help to get something in return then I don't consider it as being real and positive help. It's a selfish thing to do.
For example: IF I am lucky to have money to borrow a friend, I do it with no expectation to get it back. I give it away and leave it to the person I gave it to, to decide whether he/she can or want to pay it back. When I give money away, I give it away because I want to do it. I don't do it to make that person to be in debt with me in any way. I would never hold a money issue against anyone.
I myself wouldn't borrow money from a friend - except if was very very desperate and this was the only chance to get through a certain situation. Either friends give it as a gift or I'd say no! I would never ask for money myself either because money can destroy the closest friendship in no time!
I myself wouldn't borrow money from a friend - except if was very very desperate and this was the only chance to get through a certain situation. Either friends give it as a gift or I'd say no! I would never ask for money myself either because money can destroy the closest friendship in no time!
Coming back to the initial topic of my post, about the powers of positive and negative thoughts and energy's.
I believe that we are surrounded by energy, that we are made of energy and energy has the power to change things depending on what we are intending to do.
Before I figured that out for myself I was CONSTANTLY miserable and everything I tried kinda failed to work out properly. I was often lucky but I think in that case someone believed in me and made it working out.
Prayers, positive thoughts and good vibes are working that way. If someone needs a lot of luck to get through a situation which he can't REALLY influence himself, then positive thoughts, vibes and prayers can support that situation to work out. Because we are sending out positive energy to that person and energy can travel very long distances in a very short time. So by praying and sending out positive thoughts and vibes, we CAN influence this persons situation and if it's just to give that person the strength to handle the situation he has to face.
Whereas being negative about a certain situation can have bad effects on other people.
If someone needs strength to get through a certain situation and you are all negative about it yourself, it'll be partly your fault if it's not working out for that person.
If you are constantly scared, hopeless and negative about yourself you will fail, when you are surrounded by people who are radiating negativity as well.
If you are constantly scared, hopeless and negative about yourself you will fail, when you are surrounded by people who are radiating negativity as well.
If you want to help someone who feels hopeless and you are having negative thoughts about that situation as well, like "He's not getting through this" or "This is never going to work out" you won't be helping this person by any means. Radiate positivity even if you don't believe in it working, even if you don't think that situation will work out in any way. stay positive for the person who needs you. Don't share your negative thoughts with the person you want to help at this crucial point. You need to be supportive and positive. If you have doubts, share them with someone else you trust. After the situation is over you may share your fears and negative thoughts. Be supportive rather than critical. If a person, of course is going to do something very stupid TRY to talk that person out of that rather than criticizing the plans as such. Suggest other ideas of what to do and don't ever say this idea is stupid. People tend to be very stubborn and do it JUST because other people say it's not a bright idea. Choose your words wisely BEFORE you interfere and share your thoughts on that situation. Words are extremely powerful.
Words do have way more power than action does. Think before talking and think before trying to help! Just because something worked out just fine doesn't mean it'll work just the same way for the person you wanna help.
Words do have way more power than action does. Think before talking and think before trying to help! Just because something worked out just fine doesn't mean it'll work just the same way for the person you wanna help.
If you radiate positivity, positive things will happen and things will work out somehow and fall into place.
If you radiate negativity, negative things will happen and things will NOT work out properly and won't fall into place just like that or not at all even.
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